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Questions Members Often ask Themselves
- Will
I be accepted or rejected hers?
- How
will this group be different from my daily interactions?
- What
exactly will theses sessions be like?
- What
risks will I take in here?
- How
am I like other people here? Different?
- Will
I feel pressured and pushed to perform in some way?
- How
important will I be?
- Who
will be the real leaders here? What can be achieved here?
Concerns and Fears
- I'm
afraid I'll look stupid.
- Will
I tell too much about myself?
- Will
others like me?
- What
if I find out what I'm really like?
- What
if everyone rejects me?
- What
if the group attacks me?
- I'm
afraid I'll be withdrawn and passive.
- What
will happen if I really open up my feeling?
- Will
I embarrass myself?
- What
if I'm asked to do something I don't want to do?
- What
if others can tell I'm afraid and nervous?
- What
if I find out things about myself that I can't cope with?
Characteristics of Initial Stage
- Silence
and awkwardness.
- High
anxiety.
- Impatience
to "get the ball rolling".
- Confusion
about what everybody is supposed to be doing.
- Storytelling,
a tendency to talk about others and focus on people and
situations outside of the group.
- Central
issue is trust vs. mistrust.
- Testing
of each other and the leaders.
- Requests
for greater leader involvement.
- Cocktail
conversations, safe levels of conversation.
- Vying
for informal leadership.
Some Ways to Start a Group Sessions
- Go
around the room and have each member state what he/she
wants from the upcoming session.
- As
leaders, share your thoughts about where the group is
at, how it is progressing, ways the group might be getting
stuck, etc.
- Ask
members if they have any unresolved feelings or thoughts
about the previous session: "Did anyone have any after
thoughts or leftover feelings about last week's session?"
- Ask,
"How is each of you feeling about being here today?"
- Have
each member complete the sentence, "Today I'd like to
get actively involved by"
- Announce,
"As a way of beginning tonight, let;s have a brief go-around
and have each of you say what you'd most like to be able
to say by the end of this session."
- Inquire
of each member: "what were you thinking and feeling before
coming to the group today?" or "Whom (or what) are you
most aware of in this room right now, and why?"
Some Ways to End a Group Session
- Ask
members to tell the group briefly what they learned about
themselves through their relationships with other members
in that particular session.
- Ask,
"What was it like for you to be in this group tonight?"
- Instruct,
"Let's do a quick go-around and have everyone say a few
words on how the group is progressing so far and make
any suggestions for change."
- Indicate,
"Before we close tonight, I'd like to share with you some
of my reactions and observations of this session."
- Ask
if anybody has any feedback that they would like to give
another member or the leaders.
- Determine
if here are any issues that members would like to return
to or explore in the next session.
Planning a group - Practical Considerations
- What
is the purpose of the group?
- What
are the specific goals of the group?
- What
type of group will this be?
- What
theory will guide the group?
- What
specific techniques and strategies will be used?
- Can
I develop a session-by-session plan?
- What
therapeutic factors will be emphasized?
- To
what degree will sessions be structured?
- How
will I market the group? Obtain referrals?
- What
will be the cost of the group?
- How
will I screen/evaluate potential members?
- What
are the criteria for inclusion/exclusion?
- Where
will the group meet? What props do I need?
- What
will be the duration and frequency of meetings?
- How
many people will participate in the group?
- Will
the group be open or closed?
- How
many sessions will the group meet?
- Will
I use a co-leader? Who?
- What
will be the group rules? How will these be conveyed?
- How
will I prepare participants for the group?
- What
problems can I expect to run into, and how will I deal
with those?
- How
will I handle dropouts?
- Under
what circumstances will I remove a member from the group?
- What
paperwork/documentation will be required?
- How
will I assess outcomes of the group?
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