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yearning for a home,
assiduously and constantly devoted to it, her husband and her numerous
children. Fancy likes to linger on this old-fashioned housewife, arising
in the early morning and from that time until her bedtime content to
bake, cook, wash, dust, clean, sew, nurse and teach; imagining no other
career possible or proper for her sex; leading a life of self- sacrifice,
toil and devotion. Poet, novelist, artist, and clergyman have immortalized
her, and men for the most part cherish this type as their mother and
dream of it as the ideal wife.
Perhaps (and probably) this woman rebelled in her heart against her
drudgery and dreamed of better things; perhaps she regretted the quickly
past youth and dreaded the frequent child-bearing. Whether she did or
not, the appearance of a strongly non-domestic type is part of the history
of the latter nineteenth century and the early twentieth.
The non-domestic women are, like their male prototypes, of many kinds,
and it would be idle to enumerate them. There is the kind of woman that
"has a career," using this term neither sarcastically nor
flatteringly. The successful artist of whatever sort--painter, musician,
actress--has usually been quite spoiled for domesticity by the reward
of money and adulation given her. Nowhere is the lack of proportion
of our society so well demonstrated as in the hysterical praise given
to this kind of woman, and naturally she cannot consent to the subordination
and seclusion of the home. Then there is the young business woman, efficient,
independent, proud of her place in the bustle and stir of trade. She
is quite willing to marry and often makes an admirable mother and wife,
but sometimes she finds the menial character of housework, its monotony
and dependence too much for her. The feminist aglow with equality and
imbued with too vivid a feeling of sex antagonism may marry and bear
children, but she rarely becomes a fireside companion of the type the
average man idealizes. Then the vain, the frivolous, the sexually uncontrolled,--these
too make poor choice for him who has set his heart on a wife who will
cook his meals, darn his stockings and care for the children. To be
non-domestic is a privilege or a right we cannot deny to women, nor
is there condemnation in the term,--it is merely a summary characterization.
Though to remain single is to be freer than to be married and domestic,
yet the race will always have far more domestic characters. These alone
will bear children, and from them the racial characters will flow rather
than from the exceptional and deviate types, unless the home disappears
in the form of some other method of raising children. After all, the
home is a costly, inefficient method of family life unless it has advantages
for childhood. This it decidedly has, though we have bad homes aplenty
and foolish ones galore. Yet there is for the child a care, and more
important, an immersion in love and tender feeling, possible in no other
way. We should lose the sacred principles of motherhood and fatherhood,
the only example of consistent and unrewarded love, if the home disappeared.
The only real altruism of any continuous and widespread type is there
found. It is the promise and the possibility of our race that we see
in the living parents. We know that unselfishness exists when we think
of them, and the idealist who dreams of a world set free from greed
and struggle merely enlarges the ideal home.
But we must be realistic, as well as idealistic. A silent or noisy struggle
goes on in the home between the old and the new, between a rising and
a receding generation. An orthodox old generation looks askance on an
heretical new generation; parents who believe that to play cards or
go to theater is the way of Satan find their children leaving home to
do these very things. Everywhere mothers wonder why daughters like short
skirts, powder and perhaps rouge, when they were brought up on the corset,
crinoline and the bustle; and they rebel against the indictment passed
out broadcast by their children. "You are old-fashioned; this is
the year 1921." When children grow up, their wills clash with their
parents', even in the sweetest, and most loving of homes. Behind many
a girl's anxiety to marry is the desire for the unobstructed exercise
of her will. Parents too often seek in their children a continuation
of their own peculiarities, their own characters and ideals, forgetting
that the continuity of the generations is true only in a biological
sense, but in no other way. And children grown to strength, power and
intelligence think that each person must seek his experiences himself
and forget that true wisdom lies in what is accepted by all the generations.
Just as we have the types of husbands and the types of wives, so we
judge men and women by the wisdom, dignity and faithfulness of their
parenthood; so we judge them by the kind of children they are to their
parents. In this last we have a point in character of great importance
and one upon which the followers of Freud have laid much--over-much--stress.
The effect of too affectionate a home training, too assertive parenthood,
is to dwarf the individuality of the child and make him a sort of parasite,
out of contact with his contemporaries, seclusive and odd. There is
a certain brand of goody-goody boy, brought up tied to his mother's
apron strings, who has lost the essential capacities of mixing with
varied types of boys and girls, who is sensitive, shy and retiring,
or who is naively boorish and unschooled in tact. According to some
psychiatrists this kind of training breeds the mental disease known
as Dementia Praecox, but I seriously doubt it. One often finds that
the goody-goody boy of fifteen becomes the college fullback at twenty,--that
is, once thrown on the world, the really normal get back their birthright
of character. I think it likely that now and then a feeling of inferiority
is bred in this way, a feeling that may cling and change the current
of a boy's life. The real danger of too close a family life, in whatever
way it manifests itself, is that it cuts into real social life, narrows
the field of influences and sympathies, breeds a type of personality
of perhaps good morals but of poor humanity.
The home must never lose its contact with the world; it should never
be regarded as the real world for which a man works. It is a place to
rest in, to eat in, to work in; in it is the spirit of family life,
redolent of affection, mutual aid and self-sacrifice; but more than
these, it is the nodal point of affections, concerns and activity which
radiate from it to the rest of the world.
CHAPTER XV. PLAY, RECREATION, HUMOR AND PLEASURE SEEKING
One of the great difficulties in thought is that often the same word
expresses quite different concepts. Some superficial resemblance has
taken possession of the mind and expressed itself in a unifying word,
disregarding the fundamental differences.
Take the word "play." The play of childhood is indeed a pleasurable
activity to the child, but it is really his form of grappling with life,
a serious pursuit of knowledge and a form of preparation for his adult
activities. It is not a way of relaxation; on the contrary, in play
he organizes his activities, shuffles and reshuffles his ideas and experiences,
looking for the new combinations we call "imaginations." The
kitten in its play prepares to catch its prey later on; and the child
digging in a ditch and making believe "this is a house" and
"this is a river" is a symbol of Man the mighty changing the
face of Nature. The running and catching games like "Tag"
and "I spy," "Hide and go seek," "Rellevo"
are really war games, with training in endurance, agility, cool-headedness,
cooperation and rivalry as their goals. Only as the child grows older,
and there is placed on him the burden of school work, does play commence
to change its serious nature and partake of the frivolous character
of adult life.
For the play of adult life is an effort to find pleasure and relaxation
in the dropping of serious purposes, in the "forgetting" of
cares and worries, by indulging in excitement which has no fundamental
purpose. The pleasure of play for the adult is in the release of trends
from inhibition, exactly as we may imagine that a harnessed horse, pulling
at a load and with his head held back by a check-rein, might feel if
he were turned loose in a meadow. This is the kind of play spirit manifested
in going out fishing, dressed in old clothes, with men who will not
care whatever is said or done. There is purpose, there is competition
and cooperation and fellowship, but the organization is a loose one
and does not bear heavily. So, too, with the pleasure of a game of ball
for the amateur who plays now and then. There is organization, control
and competition; but unless one is a poor loser, there is a relaxed
tension in that the purpose is not vital, and one can shout, jump up
and down and express himself in uninhibited excitement. Whether this
excitement has a value in discharging other excitement and feelings
that are inhibited in the daily work is another matter; if it has such
a value, play becomes of necessary importance. In outdoor games in general,
the feeling of physical fitness, of discharging energy along primordial
lines and the happy feeling that comes merely from color of sky and
grass and the outdoor world, bring a relief from sadness that comes
with the work and life of the city man.
Often the play is an effort to seek excitement and thus to forget cares,
or it is a seeking of excitement for its own sake. Thus men gamble,
not only for the gain but because such excitement as is aroused offers
relief from business worries or home difficulties. The prize fights,
the highly competitive professional sports of all kinds are frequented
and followed by enormous numbers of men, not only because men greatly
admire physical prowess, but because the intense excitement is sought.
I know more than one business and professional man who goes to the "fights"
because only there can he get a thrill. There is a generalized mild
anhedonia in the community, which has its origin in the fatigue of overintense
purposes, failure to realize ideals and the difficulties of choice.
People who suffer in this way often seek the sedentary satisfaction
of watching competitive professional games.
Indeed, the hold of competition on man exists not alone in his rivalry
feeling toward others; it is evidenced also in the excitement he immediately
feels in the presence of competitive struggle, even though he himself
has little or no personal stake. Man is a partisan creature and loves
to take sides. This is remarkably demonstrated by children, and is almost
as well shown in the play of adults. A recent international prize fight
awakened more intense interest than almost any international event of
whatever real importance. That same day it passed practically unnoticed
that America ended a state of war with Germany.
A law of excitement, that it lies in part in a personal hazard accounts
for the growth of betting at games. The effort to gain adds to the interest,
i. e., excitement. That it adds tension as well and may result in fatigue
and further boredom is not reckoned with by the bettor or gambler. To
follow the middle of the road in anything is difficult, and nowhere
is it more beset with danger than in the seeking of excitement.
Games of skill of all kinds, whether out of doors or within; baseball,
cricket, billiards, and pool afford, then, the pleasure of exertion
and competition in an exciting way and yet one removed from too great
a stake. Defeat is not bitter, though victory is sweet; a good game
is desired, and an easy opponent is not welcomed. The spirit of this
kind of play has been of great value to society, for it has brought
the feeling of fair play and sportsmanship to the world. Primitive in
its origin, to take defeat nobly and victory with becoming modesty is
the civilizing influence of sportsmanship. In the past women have lacked
good-fellowship and sportsmanship largely because they played no competitive-cooperative
games.
I shall not attempt to take up in any detail all the forms of pleasure-excitement
seeking. Dancing, music, the theater and the movies offer outlets both
for the artistic impulses and the seeking of excitement. In the theater
and the movies one seeks also the interest we take in the lives of others,
the awakening of emotions and the happy ending. Only a few people will
ever care for the artistic wholesale calamity of a play like "Hamlet,"
and even they only once in a while.
Men and women seek variety, they seek excitement in any and all directions,
they want relief from the tyranny of purpose and of care. But also,--they
hate a vacuum, they can usually bear themselves and their thoughts for
only a little while, because their thoughts are often basicly melancholy
and full of dissatisfaction. So they seek escape from themselves; they
try to kill time; reading, playing and going to entertainments. In fact,
most of our reading is actuated by the play spirit, and is an effort
to obtain excitement through the lives of others.
Humor[1] is a form of pleasure seeking and giving, but depends on a
certain technique, the object of which is to elicit the laugh or its
equivalent. The laugh is a discharge of tension, and while usually it
accompanies pleasure, it may indicate the tension of embarrassment or
even complex emotional states. But the laugh or smile of humor has to
be elicited in certain ways, chief of which are to bring about a feeling
of expectation, and by some novel arrangement of words, to send the
mind on a voyage of discovery which suddenly ends with a burst of pleasure
when the "point" is seen. The pleasure felt in humor arises
from the feeling of novelty, the pleasure of discovering a hidden meaning
and the pleasure in the "point" or motive of the story, joke
or conduct.
[1] I use this term to include wit, satire and even
certain phases of the comic.
Usually, the humorous pleasure has these motives: it points at the folly
and absurdity of other people's conduct, thought, logic and customs.
It gives a feeling of superiority, and that is why all races love to
poke fun at other races: certain characteristics of Jew, Irishman, Yankee,
Scot, etc., are presented in novel and striking fashion, in a playful
manner.
It points out the weak and absurd side of people and institutions with
which we have trouble; and this brings in marriage, business, mothers-in-law,
creditors, debtors, as those whose weakness is exposed by the technique
of humor.
Humor likes to explode pretension, pedantry, dignity, pomposity; we
get a feeling of joy whenever those who are superior come a cropper,
which is increased when we feel that they have no right to their places.
So the humorous technique deals with the get-rich-quick folk, the foolish
nobleman, the politician, the priest (especially in the Middle Ages),
etc.
Not only does humor seek to obtain pleasure from an attack on others
and thus to feel superior or to compensate for inferiority, but also
it reaches its highest form in exposing man himself, including the humorist.
The humorist, seeking his own weaknesses and contradictions, his falsities,
strips the disguise from himself in some surprising way. Bergson points
out that to strip away a disguise is naturely humorous unless it reveals
too rudely the horrible. The humorist takes off the mask from himself
and others, and in so far as we can detach ourselves from pride and
vanity, we laugh. The one who cannot thus detach himself is "hurt"
by humor; the one who somehow has become a spectator of his own strivings
can laugh at himself. Thus humor, in addition to becoming a compensation
and a form of entertainment, is a form of self-revelation and self-understanding
carried on by a peculiar technique. On the whole this technique depends
upon a hiding of the real meaning of the story or situation under a
disguise of the commonplace. The humorist phrases his words or develops
his situation so as to send the thoughts of the listener flying in several
directions. There is a brief confusion, an incongruity is felt, then
suddenly from under a disguise the point becomes clear and the laugh
is in part one of triumph, in part one of pleased surprise.
I shall not attempt an analysis of the psychology of humor, for illustrious
writers and thinkers have stubbed their intellectual toes on this rock
for centuries. In later years the analyses of Freud and Bergson are
noted, but there is a list of writers from Aristotle down whose remarks
and observations have brought out clearly certain trends. For us the
direction that any one's humor takes is a very important phase in the
study of character.
Humor is a weapon, and the humorist has two ends in view: the one to
please his audience and to align them on his side, the second to attack
either playfully or seriously some person or institution with the technique
of humor. Certain trends are seen in humor, one to seek a feeling of
superiority by revealing the inferiority of others in a surprising way,
another to release a burdensome[1] inhibition, a third to play with
and in a sense mock the disagreeable features of life, and the fourth
to seek detachment from one's self, to seek relief from sorrow, disappointment
and deprivation by viewing the self as from afar.
[1] In this way humor is an effort for freedom; through humor one tastes
of experiences otherwise forbidden.
So there is a sarcastic humor which points out the foibles and weaknesses
of others either grossly or delicately. Usually these others are those
differing from one's own group--the Irish, Jew, farmer, Negro--and the
jokes either deal with their personal appearance (a low humor) or their
characteristic expressions, points of view and actions. The audience
is convulsed at their quaintness or folly, though often enough on the
stage the comic figure delivers a sort of wisdom mingled with his foolishness,
and this adds to the humorous explosion. The sarcastic humor in its
highest form reaches satire, where under a disguise powerful institutions
or the habit and ways of life of a group are criticized. In polite society
people are continually attacking each other in a kind of warfare called
repartee, in which the tension is kept just without the bounds of real
hostility, while the audience sides with the one whose shaft is the
most telling. In the lower ranks this interchange, which is surprisingly
frequent, is coarse and insulting. It is supposed to be a test of character
to be able to "stand" these attacks with equanimity and even
to join in the laugh against oneself. To "kid" and take "kidding"
is thus an important social trait.
Humor is often used to expose the folly of the pretentious. Much of
the stock in trade of the humorist lies in his attack on the pedant,
the pompous, the great, the new-rich, the over-important of one kind
or another. To find them less than they pretend to be gives two especial
kinds of pleasure to the audience; the first the stripping away of disguise
(Bergson), and the second the relief of our own feeling of inferiority
in their presence by showing how inferior they really are.
Since inhibition wears on us, the great inhibitions are directly attacked
by the humorist. Thus sex forms one of the great subjects of humor,
and from the obscene story told by those on whom the sex inhibitions
rest lightly to the joke about clothes, etc., told by those who mock
the opposite sex, the whole idea is to bring about pleasure in the release
of inhibitton and the play of the mind around the forbidden. Freud has
some interesting remarks on this type of humor, which he regards largely
as sexual aggression. It is necessary to say that the release of inhibition
is always that of an inhibition not too strongly felt or accepted. A
really modest person, one to whom the sex code is a sacred thing, does
not find pleasure in a crude sex joke. Similarly with the inhibition
surrounding marriage, which is a stock subject of humor. The overearnest
person dislikes this type of humor and reacts against it by calling
it "in bad taste." In the Middle Ages (and to-day among those
opposed to the Catholic church), the priest and nun were slyly or coarsely
attacked by the humorist, and in all times those somewhat skeptical
find in religion, its ceremonials and customs, a field for joke and
satire.
The most interesting of the types of humor flirts with the disagreeable.
Man is the only animal foreseeing death and disaster, and he not only
quakes in the knowledge of misfortune, but also he jokes about it. It
may be that the excitement of approaching in spirit the disagreeable
is pleasant, and perhaps there is pleasure in attacking disaster, even
in a playful way. The ability to joke about other people's misfortunes
is not, of course, a measure of gallantry or courage and usually indicates
a feeling of superiority such as we all tend to feel in the presence
of the unfortunate, even where no element of weakness has caused their
mishap. But to joke about one's own troubles, danger and disaster at
least indicate a sense of proportion, an ability to stand aloof from
oneself.
This propensity is remarkably manifest in hospitals, in war and wherever
disaster or danger is present. The soldiers nickname in a familiar way
all their troubles and all their dangers. The popular phrases for dying
illustrate this,--croaked, flew up the spout, turned up the toes, etc.
In the war the different kinds of guns and missiles had nicknames, and
puns were made on the various dreaded results of injury. It was declared
by the soldiers that no missile could injure any man unless it has his
name and address on it, which is, of course, a poetical, humorous comparison
of the missile to a longed-for letter. I heard a wounded man say the
only trouble was that the postoffice department mistook him for another
fellow. Grim humor always is evident in grim situations; it is a way
of evasion and escape, and also it is a challenge.
When one objectifies himself so that he sees himself, his purposes and
his weaknesses in the light in which others might see him and find him
"funny," then he has reached the heights in humor. Certain
people are notoriously lacking in this quality of detachment, and they
cannot laugh at themselves or find any humor in a situation that annoys,
mortifies or hurts them. Others have it to a remarkable degree, and
if they possess at the same time the art of telling the humorous story
about themselves, they become very popular. This popularity accounts
for a good deal of seeming modesty and humorous self-depiction; it is
a sort of recompense for the self-confessed foible and weakness; it
is a way of seeking the good opinion and applause of others and is sometimes
sought to a ridiculous extreme.
The character and the state of culture stand revealed in the type of
humor enjoyed. If a man laughs heartily at sex jokes, one may at least
say, that while he may live up to the conventions in this matter, it
is certain that he regards the inhibitions as conventions, even though
he give them lip-homage. No one finds much humor in the things he holds
as really sacred, and if these are attacked in the joke he may laugh,
but he is offended and angry at heart. Any man permits a joke on women
in general, but he will not permit an obscene joke about his wife or
his mother. Humor must not arouse the anger of the audience or the reader,
and in this it resembles wrestling matches and friendly boxing, which
are pleasant as attacks not seriously intended, but the blows must not
exceed a certain play limit or war is declared.
To be entertained, to entertain, to escape from fatigue, monotony, inhibition,
to seek excitement, to while away the time and thus to escape from failure,
regret and sorrow are parts of the life and character of all. They who
have nothing else but these activities in their lives are to be pitied,
and they are unwise who allow themselves too little amusement and recreation.
But we have not spoken of pleasure as a whole, pleasure apart from entertainment,
play and humor. The satisfaction of any physical desire is pleasant,
so that to eat and drink and have sexual relations become great pleasure
trends. There are some who live only for these pleasures, ranging from
glutton to epicure, from the brutally passionate to the sexual connoisseur.
Others whose appetites are hearty subordinate them to the main business
of their lives, achievement in some form. There is a whole range of
taste in pleasures of this kind that I do not even attempt to analyze
at this point, even if it were possible for me to analyze it.
Pleasure in dress, in ceremonials, in all the ornamentation of life,
forms part of the artistic impulses. The love of music is too lofty
to be classed with the other pleasures. This is true of only a few people.
For most of us music is an entertainment and is usually poorly endured
if it constitutes the total entertainment. As part of the theater, of
the movie, of dancing, it is "appreciated" by everybody. To
most it stirs the emotions so deeply that its pleasure vanishes in fatigue
if too long endured. The capacity to enjoy music, especially the capacity
to express it, is one of the great variables of life. It is true that
the poseurs in music and the arts generally seek superiority by pretending
to a knowledge, interest and pleasure they do not really have, just
as there are some who really try to enjoy what they feel they should
enjoy. Nowhere is there quite so much pretense and humbug as in the
field of the artistic tastes. Nowhere is the arbitrariness of taste
so evident, and nowhere is the "expert" so likely to be a
pretender. I say this in full recognition of the fact that science and
religion have their modes and pretenses as well as art.
The "progress" of man is marked as much as anything by a change
in "taste," change in what is considered mannerly, beautiful
and pleasant. This progress is called refinement, although this term
is also used in relation to ethics. Refinement in cooking leads to the
art of the chef. Refinement in dress becomes developed into an intricate,
ever-changing relation of clothes and age, sex, time of day, situation,
etc., so that it is unrefined to wear clothes of certain texture and
hues and refined to wear others. Refinement in manner regulates the
tone of voice, the violence of gesticulation, the exhibition of emotions
and the type of subjects discussed, as well as controlling a dozen and
one other matters, from the way one enters a room to the way one leaves
it. The savage is unrefined, say we, though he has his own standards
of refinement. An American is a boor if he tucks his napkin in at the
neck and uses bread to sop up the gravy on his plate, whereas Italians
find it perfectly proper to do these things and find the bustle of the
American life totally unrefined.
That refinement and developed taste are matters of convention and entirely
relative is not a new thesis; it is an old accepted truth. What I wish
to point out is this, that every development in refinement adds some
new pleasure to the world but subtracts some old ones. He who develops
his musical tastes from ragtime to the classics finds joys he knew not
of, but is offended and disgusted whenever he visits friends, attends
a movie or a theater. When people ate with their fingers there was little
to be disgusted at in eating; when people need spotless linen and eight
or ten forks, knives, and spoons for a meal, a single disarrangement,
a spot on the linen, is intolerable. The higher one builds one's needs
and tastes, the more opportunities for disgust, disappointment and discontent.
Most of the people of the world have never understood this. To the majority,
acquisition, the multiplication of needs, desires and tastes constitute
progress and seem to be the roads to happiness. Get rich, have horses,
autos, beautiful things in the house, servants, go where you please
and when you please,--this is happiness. The rich man knows it is not,
and so does the wise man. Desires grow with each acquisition, the capacity
for satisfaction diminishes with every gratification, novelty disappears
and with the growth of taste little disharmonies offend deeply.
Some men have reacted in this way against gratification and satisfaction,
against the building up of needs and tastes, and in every age we hear
of the "simple life," the happy, contented life, where needs
are few and things are "natural." The ascetic ideal of renunciation
is the dominant note in Buddhism and Christianity; fly from the pleasures
of this world, give up and renounce, for all is vanity and folly. To
every struggler this seems true when the battle is hardest, when achievement
seems futile and empty, and when he whispers to himself, "What
is it all about, anyway?" To stop struggling, to desire only the
plainest food, the plainest clothes, to live without the needless multiplication
of refinements, to work at something essential for daily bread, to stop
competing with one's neighbor in clothes, houses, ornaments, tastes,--it
seems so pleasant and restful. But the competition gets keener, the
struggle harder, tastes multiply, yesterday's luxury is to-day's need--to
what end?
Will mankind ever accept a modified asceticism as its goal? I think
it will be forced to, but it may be that the wish is father to the thought.
Sometimes it seems as if the real crucifixion for every one of us is
in our contending desires and tastes, in the artificial competing standards
that are mislabeled refinement. To be finicky is to court anhedonia,
and the joy of life is in robust tastes not easily offended and easily
gratified.
Perhaps this is irrelevant in a chapter on play and recreation, but
it is easily seen that much of play is a revolt against refinement and
taste, just as much as humor is directed against them. In play we allow
ourselves to shout, laugh aloud and to be unrefined; we welcome dirt
and disorder; we forget clothes and manners; we are "natural,"
i. e., unrefined. The higher we build our tastes the more we need play.
If such a thing as a "state of nature" could be reached, play
and recreation in the adult sense would hardly more than exist.
CHAPTER XVI. RELIGIOUS CHARACTERS. DISHARMONY IN CHARACTER
I find in William James' "Varieties of Religious Experience",
the following definition of religion: "Religion, therefore, as
I shall ask you arbitrarily to take it, shall mean for us the feelings,
acts and experiences of individuals in their solitude so far as they
comprehend themselves to stand in relation to whatever they may consider
the divine."
It seems to me the common man would as soon understand Einstein as this
definition. In fact, the religious trends of the men and women in this
world have many sources and are no more unified than their humor is.
Whether all peoples, no matter how low in culture, have had religion
cannot be settled by a study of the present inhabitants of the world,
for every one of these, though savage, has tradition and some culture.
Theoretically, for the one who accepts some form of evolution as true,
at some time in man's history he has first asked himself some of the
questions answered by religion.
For my part, as I read the anthropologists (whose answers to the question
of the origin of religion I regard as the only valid ones, since they
are the only ones without prejudice and with some regard for scientific
method), it is the practical needs of man, his curiosity and his tendency
to explain by human force, which are the first sources of the religions.
How to get good crops, how to catch fish and game, how to win over enemies,
how and whom to marry, what to do to be strong and successful as individual
and group, found various answers in the taboo, the prayer, the ceremony
and the priest, magician and scientist. Curiosity as to what was behind
each phenomenon of nature and the tendency of man to personalize all
force, as well as the awe and admiration aroused by the strong, wise
and crafty contemporary and ancestor brought into the world the "old
man-cult," ancestor- worship, gods and goddesses of ranging degrees
and power, but very much like men and women except for power and longevity.
Certain natural phenomena--death, sleep, trance, epileptic attack--all
played their part, bringing about ideas of the soul, immortality, possession,
etc. With culture and the growth of inhibition and knowledge and the
use of art and symbols, the primitive beliefs modified their nature;
the gods became one God, who was gradually stripped of his human desires,
wishes, partialities and attributes until for the majority of the cultivated
he becomes Nature, which in the end is a collection of laws in which
one HOPES there is a unifying purpose. But the vast majority of the
world, even in the so-called civilized countries, worship taboos, symbols,
have a modified polytheistic belief or a personalized God, still attempt
to persuade the Power in their own behalf, to act favorably to their
own purposes and follow those who claim knowledge of the divine and
inscrutable,--the priest, minister, rabbi, the man of God, in a phrase.
A part of religious feeling arises in civilized man, at least, from
the feeling of awe in the presence of the vast forces of nature. Here
science has contributed to religious feeling, for as one looks at the
stars, his soul bows in worship mainly because the astronomer, the scientist,
has told him that every twinkling point is a great sun surrounded by
planets, and that the light from them must travel unimaginable millions
of miles to reach him. As the world forces become impersonal they become
more majestic, and a deeper feeling is evoked in their presence. Science
aids true religion by increasing awe, by increasing knowledge.
A great factor in religion is the longing to compensate for death and
suffering. Religion represents a reaction against fear, horror and humiliation.
It is a cry of triumph in the face of what otherwise is disaster "I
am not man, the worm, sick, old, doomed to die; I am the heir of the
divine and will live forever, happy and blessed." Whether religious
teaching is true or not, its great value lies in the happiness and surety
of those who believe.
In its very highest sense the religious life is an effort to identify
oneself with the largest purpose in the world. All cooperative purposes
are thus religious, all competitive nonreligious. The selfish is therefore
opposed to the altruistic purpose, the narrow to the broad. Good is
the symbol for the purposes that seek the welfare of all: evil is the
symbol of those who seek the welfare of a person or a group, regardless
of the rest.
If this definition is correct, then every reformer is religious and
every self-seeker, though he wear all the symbols of a religion and
pray three times a day, is irreligious. I admit no man or woman to the
fellowship of the religious unless in his heart he seeks some purpose
that will lift the world out of discord and into harmony.
The power of the human being to believe in the face of opposed fact,
inconsistency and unfavorable result is nowhere so well exemplified
as in religion. I do not speak of the untold crimes and inhumanities
done in the name of religion, of human sacrifice, persecution, religious
war,--these are parts of a chapter in human history outside of the province
of this book and almost too horrible to be contemplated. But men have
believed (and do believe) that some among them knew what God wanted,
that certain procedures, tricks and ceremonies conveyed sanctity and
surety; that cosmic events like storms, droughts, eclipses and epidemics
had personal human meanings, that Infinite Wisdom would be guided in
action by the prayers of ignorance, self-seeking and hatred, etc., etc.
The savage who believes that his medicine man's antics, paint and feathers
will bring rain and fertile soil has his counterpart in the civilized
man who believes that this or that ceremonial and professed belief insures
salvation. Faith is beautiful in the abstract, but in the concrete it
is often the origin of superstition and amazing folly.[1] However crudely
intelligence and honest scientific effort may work, they soar in a heaven
far above the abyss of credulity.
[1] It would be amusing were it not sad to see how
remarkably well some philosophers use their intelligence and logic to
prove the invalidity of intelligence and logic. They praise emotion,
instinct and "intuition" and such modes of knowing and acting,
yet their works are closely argued, reasoned and appeal throughout to
the intelligence of their readers for acceptance.
True religion in
the sense I have used the word has faith in it, the faith that there
is a purpose in the universe, though it seems impossible for us to discover
it. In the personal character it seeks to establish altruistic feeling
and conduct, though it does not rule out as unworthy self-feeling or
seeking. It merely subordinates them. It does not deny the validity
of pleasure, of the sensuous pleasures; it does not set its face against
drinking, eating, sexual love, play and entertainment, but it urges
a valid purpose as necessary for happiness and morality. It does not
glorify faith as against reason, emotion as against intelligence; on
the contrary, it holds that reason and intelligence are the governing
factors in human life and only by use of them do we rise from the beast.
So the religious life of those we study will be of great importance
to us. In the majority of cases we shall find that social heredity,
tradition and backing will play the dominant role, in that most, in
name at least, live and die in the faith in which they were born. We
find those who identify form and ceremonial with religion (the majority),
others who identify it with ethics and morality, and who can conceive
no righteousness out of it. Then there is the strictly modern type of
person to whom right conduct is held to have nothing to do with religious
belief and who measures Christian, Jew, Mohammedan and agnostic by their
acts and not at all by their dogma, and who thus relegates religion,
in the ordinary use of the word, to a rather useless place in human
life. Orthodoxy, piety, tolerance and skepticism represent attitudes
towards organized religion: altruism, sympathy, good will, and fellowship
are the measurements of the unorganized religion whose mission it is
to find the purpose of life.
We have spoken throughout of man as a mosaic of character, and we must
modify this statement. A mosaic is a static collection, whereas a man
has character struggles, balance and overbalance. Really to know a man
is to get at the proportionate power of his various trends, to understand
his harmonies and disharmonies.
Character development is the story of the unification of the traits
or characters. Disharmony, disproportion of traits and characters may
be progressive and lead to disaster and mental disease, or a balance
may be reached after a struggle and what we call reform takes place.
Though our social life tends to narrow and repress character, it also
tends to harmonize it by the preventing of excess development of certain
traits. The social person is on the whole well balanced, though he may
be mediocre. On the other hand, the non-social person usually tends
to unbalance in the sense that he becomes odd and eccentric.
What are the chief disharmonies? I mean, of course, glaring disharmonies,
for no one is of harmonious development, with intelligence, emotions,
instincts, desires, purposes in cooperation with each other. This I
propose to consider in more detail in the next chapter, on some character
types, but it will be of use to sketch the great disharmonies.
Character is dynamic, and a fundamental disharmony, even if not noticeable
early in life, may progress to the point of disruption of the personality.
Thus an individual who is strongly egoistic in his purposes and aims
may succeed if at the same time he is determined intelligent and shrewd.
But let us suppose he has a son who is as strongly egoistic, is as determined,
but lacks intelligence and shrewdness. Not becoming successful, this
person ascribes his failure to others and develops ideas of persecution.
Again, a true poet is a person of keen sensibilities, but he must possess
at the same time imaginative intelligence and the power of words. Let
these be joined in proper proportions, and his verse becomes ours and
we hail him as a poet. But let him lack the power of words, and though
he sweat with a desire to write he is a failure or a hack poet, making
up by industry what he lacks in beauty. Suppose there is a man deeply
passionate, thrilled by the beauty of women and desiring them with a
fierce ardor, and yet he has strong inhibitions, great purposes which
hold him steady. Then throughout life he seems calm, chaste and controlled,
and no one knows of the turmoil and battle within him. We may suppose
that old age[1] or a sickness lowers his inhibiting qualities, and a
startling change in conduct results, one that we can scarcely believe
and which we are inclined to call a complete transformation of personality.
In reality, a disharmony has occurred, some trend has been released,
and conduct, which is a resultant, changes its direction.
[1] Sexual misdemeanor is not uncommon in old men
who have hitherto been of hallowed reputation.
Inhibition control, may develop later than it should, as I have already
mentioned. At adolescence sex desire comes suddenly into play, but usually
in one way or another there are checks upon its effects already established.
But often there is not, and the boy or girl plunges into a sex life
that brings them into violent conflict with themselves and society.
Despite their efforts the non-ethical conduct continues; despite their
tears and vows to reform they are swept by "temptation" into
difficulty. Then suddenly or gradually, perhaps long after every one
despairs of them, the inhibition appears, and they settle down to a
controlled life. What has happened? We cannot say in anatomical terms,
but from a psychological standpoint the function of inhibition, delayed
in its appearance, finally comes on the scene. We see this delay in
other phases of character; there is often delay in sex feeling, in the
interest in work, in love of the beautiful, in control of anger, etc.
Take the last mentioned: an irascible child grows into an irascible
adolescent and even into a similar adult, flaring up under the least
provocation, to the dismay and disgust of others and himself. "He
can't control himself," so say others, and so thinks he. He vows
reform, but nothing seems to help. Then like a miracle comes the longed-for
inhibition; anger is still there when his will is crossed or his opinion
scouted, but a firm hand is on it, and he maintains a calm he had despaired
of reaching.
Man is a bundle of disharmonies, as the great Eli Metchnikoff pointed
out, physically, psychologically and sociologically. When these disharmonies
are within average limits we do not notice them; when they are greater
in degree they bring about conduct that at once claims attention. Sometimes
a disharmony is merely an excess development of some ability, in which
case, if the ability is socially valuable, we have the talented person
or the genius. This is often the case with the artistic abilities and
also with the physical powers. If the disharmony involve an instinct,
an emotion or certain phases of the intelligence, we are brought face
to face with the abnormal.
There is, of course, disharmony through ordinary defect as in feeble-mindedness,
as in absence of some essential emotion or instinct. These are hopeless
situations and belong in the grim field of psychopathology. Often what
seems to be a defect is a "sleeping" quality, and one that
will awaken under appropriate circumstance. Conspicuously, maternal
love is of this nature. One sees a girl who has no interest in children,
considers them bores and nuisances, who marries with the hope she will
be childless, and with the first baby becomes a passionately devoted
mother, even fiercely maternal.
In the following pages I shall sketch some prominent character types.
This has been done by such masters as Aristotle, Spinoza, Kant, La Bruyere,
Stewart, Ribot, Mill, etc., but with a different purpose and starting
point than mine.
Every great novelist is a professor of character depiction. Witness
Scrooge, Pecksniff, Mark Tapley, Pickwick, Sam Weller and his father,
created by Dickens; the four musketeers, especially D'Artagnon, of Dumas;
Amelia and Rebecca Sharp, George, and the Major of Thackeray; Jane Austen's
heroines and George Eliot's men and women; the narrators in the famous
Canterbury Inn, the soldiers of Kipling, the Shylocks, Macbeths, Rosalinds
and Falstaffs of the greatest dramatist; the thousand and one fictitious
and yet real figures of literature.
The temperament studies by the psychologists and philosophers have been
too broad and too classical to be of practical value. Sanguine and choleric
temperament, the bilious, the nervous and the phlegmatic, the quick
and the slow, all these are broad divisions, and no man really exemplifies
them. What I propose to do is less ambitious, but perhaps more practical.
I shall take a few of the qualities with which the previous pages have
concerned themselves and show how they work out in individuals mainly
sketched from life.
It will seem that perhaps a disproportionate number are pathological,
but I wish to insist that there is no sharp line between the "normal"
and "pathological" in character. In fact, normality is an
abstract conception, an ideal never reached or seen, and each of us
only approaches that ideal in greater or lesser degree. Moreover, certain
deviations from the normal are useful, as the assemblage of qualities
that make the genius or the reformer of certain types. Others are not
useful, or at least not useful in the environment and age in which the
deviated person finds himself. Undoubtedly the abnormal have helped
found religions, for one who "hears" God and "sees"
him as do many of the insane, if intelligent and eloquent at the same
time, easily convinces others; but if such a person occurs in a group
with well-established belief and resistant to the new, the insane hospital
soon lodges the new apostle.
I shall not attempt to consider all the varied shades of harmony and
disharmony, the extraordinary variety of types. There are as many varieties
of persons as there are people, and the mathematical possibilities exceed
computation. Those depicted are some of the outstanding types, in whom
qualities and combinations of qualities can easily be seen at work.
CHAPTER XVII. SOME CHARACTER TYPES
There is one kind of energy discharger that we may call the hyperkinetic,
controlled practical type. This group is characterized by great and
constant activity, well controlled by purpose, with eagerness and enthusiasm
manifested in each act but not excessively.
1. A. is one of these people. In school he specialized in athletics
and was a fine all-round player in almost every sport. When he left
high school to go to work he at once entered business. His employers
soon found him to be a tireless worker, steady and purposeful in everything.
In addition to carrying on his duties by day, A. studied nights, carefully
choosing his subjects so that they related directly to his business.
Despite the fact that his work was hard and his studies exacting, A.
had energy enough left to join social organizations and to take a leading
part in their affairs. He became quickly known as one of those busy
people who always are ready to take on more work. Naturally this led
to his becoming a leader, first in his social relations and second in
his business. Always practical in his judgments and actions, A. fell
in love with the daughter of a rich family and married her, with the
full approval of her relatives, who were keen enough to see that his
energy, power and control were destined for success.
The leading traits that A. manifests hinge around his high energy and
control. He is honest and conventional, devoted to the ideals of his
group and admires learning, but he is not in any sense a scholar. He
is a poor speaker, in the ordinary sense of that term, but curiously
effective, nevertheless, because his earnest energy and sturdy common
sense win approval as "not a theorist." But mainly he wins
because he is tireless in energy and enthusiasm and yet has yoked these
qualities to ordinary purposes. The average man he meets understands
him thoroughly, sympathizes with him completely and accepts him as a
leader after his own heart.
So A. has become rich and respected. As times goes on, as he is brought
more and more into contact with large affairs outside of business; as
a trustee of hospitals and a director of charitable organizations, he
broadens out but not into an "unsafe" attitude. He pities
the unfortunate but is not truly sympathetic, in that it rarely occurs
to him that success and failure are relative, that an accident might
have shipwrecked his fortunes and that his good qualities are as innate
as his complexion. For this man prides himself on his strong will and
courage, whereas he merely has within him a fine engine in whose construction
he had no part.
2. The hyperkinetic, controlled, impractical person. B. is, in the fundamentals
of energy and control, singularly like A., but because of the nature
of his interests and purposes their lives have completely diverged so
that no one would ordinarily recognize the kinship in type. B. is and
always has been a worker, enthusiastic and enduring, and he has stuck
to his last with a fidelity that is remarkable. He is very likable in
the ordinary sense,--pleasant to look at, cheerful, ready to joke, laugh
or to help the other fellow. Nevertheless, he has only a few friends
and is a distinctly disappointed man at heart, because his interests
are in the ordinary sense, impractical.
B. early became interested in physiology. From the very start he found
in the workings of the human body a fascination that concentrated his
efforts. Poor, he worked hard enough to obtain scholarships and fellowships
in one university after another until finally he became a Ph. D. Here
was a great error from the practical standpoint; for had he become an
M. D., he would have had a profession that offered an independent financial
future. But, in his zeal, he did not wish to take on the extended program
of the physician, and he saw clearly that he might become a better scientist
as a Ph. D. He became a teacher in one school after another, did a good
deal of research work, but has not been fortunate enough to make any
epoch-making discoveries. He is one of those splendid, painstaking,
energetic men found in every university who turn out good pieces of
work of which only a few know anything, and from which in the course
of time some genius or lucky scientist culls a few facts upon which
to build up a great theory or a new doctrine. He married one of his
own students, a fine woman but unluckily not very strong, and so there
fell on him many a domestic duty that a thousand extra dollars a year
would have turned over to a maid.
Thus B. is an obscure but respected member of the faculty of a small
university. He teaches well, though he dislikes it, and he is happy
at the times when he works hard at some physiological problem. He loves
his family and has vowed that his son will be a business man. He feels
inferior as he contemplates his obscure existence, with its precarious
financial state, its drudgery and most of all the gradual disappearance
of his ideals. He is frank to himself alone, wishes he had made money,
but is apt to sneer at the world of the "fat and successful"
as less than his intellectual equal. He compares his own rewards with
that of the successful man knowing less and with a narrower outlook.
Thus, through success, A. is broadening and becoming something of an
idealist. B. is narrowing and through failure is losing his ideals.
This is not an uncommon effect of success and failure. Where success
leads to arrogance and conceit it narrows, but where the character withstands
this result the increased experience and opportunity is of great value
to character. Failure may embitter and thus narrow through envy and
lost energy, but also it may strip away conceit and overestimation and
thus lead to a richer insight into life.
3. The hyperkinetic, uncontrolled or shallow. This type, although quick
and apparently energetic, is deficient in a fundamental of the personality,
in the organizing energy. This deficiency may extend into all phases
of the mental life or in only a few phases. Thus we see people whose
thinking is rapid, energetic, but they cannot "stick" to one
line of thought long enough to reach a goal. Others are similarly situated
in regard to purposes; they are enthusiastic, easily stirred into activity,
but rarely do their purposes remain fixed long enough for success. As
a rule this class is inconstant in affections, though warm and sympathetic.
They gush but never organize their philanthropic efforts, so that they
rarely do any real good. Often the most lovable of people, they are
at the same time the despair of those who know them best.
M. is a woman who makes a fine first impression, is very pretty, with
nice manners and a quick, flattering interest in every one she meets.
She is usually classed as intelligent because she is vivacious, that
is, her mind follows the trend of things quickly, and she marshals whatever
she knows very readily. As one who knows her well says, "She shows
all her goods the first time. You really do not know how slender her
stock in trade is until you see the same goods and tricks every time
you meet her." Needless to say her critic is a woman.
M. is interested in something new each week. The "new" usually
fascinates her, and she becomes so extraordinarily busy that she hardly
has time to eat or sleep. She is always put on committees if the organization
heads do not know her, but if they do, she is carefully slated for something
of no importance. After a short time her interest has shifted to something
else. Thus she passes from work in behalf of blind babies to raising
funds for a home for indigent actors; from energy spent in philanthropy
to energy spent in learning the latest dances. Her enthusiasm never
cools off, though its goal always changes.
Fortunately she is married to a rich man who views her with affection
and a shrug of his shoulders. Her children know her; now and then, she
becomes extraordinarily interested in their welfare, much to their disgust
and rebellion, for they have long since sized her up.
She has often been on the verge of a love affair with some man who is
professionally interested in something into which she has leaped for
a short time. She raves about him, follows him, flatters and adores
him, and then, before the poor fellow knows where he is at, she is out
of love and off somewhere else. This mutability of affection has undoubtedly
saved her from disaster.
Were she not rich, M. would be one of the social problems that the social
workers cannot understand or handle, e. g., there is a type who never
sticks to anything, not because he is bored quickly, or is inefficient,
but because he is at the mercy of the new and irrelevant. Without sufficient
means he throws up his job and tries to get the new work he longs to
do. Sometimes he fails to get it, and then he becomes an unemployed
problem.
This type of uncontrolled energy reaches its height in the manical or
manic phase of the disease already described as manic depressive insanity.
The "manic personality," which need not become insane, is
characterized by high energy, vivacious emotions, rapid flow of thought
and irrelevant associations.
4. The mesokinetic--medium or average in their energy (feeling and power)--run
the range of the vast groups we call the average. This type is spurred
on by necessity, custom and habit to steady work and steady living.
Possessed of practical wisdom, their world is narrow, their affections
only called out for their kindred and immediate friends. Their interests
are largely away from their work and as a rule do not include the past
or future of the race. Usually conservative, they accept the moral standards
as absolute and are quick to resent changes in custom. They follow leaders
cheerfully, are capable of intense loyalty to that cause which they
believe to stand for their interests. Yet each individual of the mass
of men, though he never rises above mediocrity, presents to his intimates
a grouping of qualities and peculiarities that gives him a distinct
personality.
C. is one of those individuals whose mediocre energy has stood between
him and so-called success. At present he is forty and occupies about
the same position that he did at twenty. As a boy he was fond of play
but never excelled in any sport and never occupied a place of leadership.
He had the usual pugnacious code of boys, but because he was friendly
and good-natured rarely got into a fight. He liked to read and was rather
above the average in intelligence, but he never tackled the difficult
reading, confining himself to the "interesting" novel and
easy information. He left high school when he was sixteen and immediately
on leaving he dropped all study. He entered an office as errand boy
and was recognized as faithful and industrious, but he showed no especial
initiative or energy. In the course of time he was promoted from one
position to another until he became a shipper at the age of twenty.
Since this time he has remained at this post without change, except
that when he got married and on a few occasions afterward, when the
cost of living rose, his salary was raised.
C. is married, and his wife often "nags" him because he does
not get ahead. She tells him that he has no energy and fight in him,
that if he would he could do better. Sometimes he takes refuge in the
statement that he has no pull, that those who have been promoted over
his head are favorites for some reason or another, and he rarely recognizes
the superiority of his immediate superiors, though he is loyal enough
to the boss. He lives in that "quiet despair" that Thoreau
so aptly describes as the life of the average man, and he seeks escape
from it in smoking, in belonging to a variety of fraternal organizations,
in the movies and the detective story. He is a "good" father
and husband, which means that he turns over all his earnings, is faithful
and kind. Except that he admonishes and punishes his children when they
are "bad," he takes no constructive share in their training
and leaves that to the mother, the church and the school. He and his
wife are attached to one another through habit and mutual need, but
they have some time since outlived passion and intense affection. She
has sized him up as a failure and knows herself doomed to struggle against
poverty, and he knows that she understands him. This mutual "understanding"
keeps them at arm's length except in the face of danger or disaster,
when they cling to each other for comfort and support. This is the history
of many a marriage that on its surface is quiet and peaceful.
The hypokinetic types. We cannot separate energy display from enthusiasm,
courage, intelligence, persistent purpose, etc. If I have made myself
clear in the preceding pages of this book, you will realize that no
character of man works alone, but all feeling, thought and action is
a resultant of forces. Nevertheless, there are those in whom the fire
of life burns high and others in whom it burns low, and either group
may be of totally different qualities otherwise.
There are people of low energy discharge, and these it seems to me are
of two main kinds,--the one where nothing seems to arouse or create
powerful motives and purposes, and the other in whom the main defect
is a rapidly arising exhaustion. The first I call the simple hypokinetic
group and the other the irritable hypokinetic group.
The simple hypokinetic person may be one of any grade of intelligence
but more commonly is of low intelligence. In any school for the feeble-minded
one finds the apathetic imbecile, who can be kept at work by goading
and stimulation of one kind or another, who does not tire especially,
but who never works beyond a low level of speed and enthusiasm.
5. A more interesting type is T. He may be called the intelligent hypokinetic,
the high-grade failure. As a baby he learned to walk late, though he
talked early and well. He played in a leisurely sort of way, running
only when he had to and content as a rule to be in the house. He was
not seclusive, seeming to enjoy the company of other children, but rarely
made any efforts to seek them out. He was quick to learn but showed
only a moderate curiosity, and he rarely made any investigations on
his own account. It was noticed that he seldom asked "why"
in the usual manner of intelligent children.
He did fairly well in school; he had a wonderful memory and seemed to
see very quickly into intricate problems. It was always a great surprise
of his teachers that he was so bright, as one said, in comparison to
his standing. Once or twice a zealous teacher sought to stimulate him
into more effort and study, but though he responded for a short time,
gradually he slipped back into his own easy pace. He went through high
school, and on the basis of a splendid memory and a keen intelligence,
which by this time were easily recognized, he was sent to college. He
took no part in athletics and little part in the communal college activities.
He had so good a command of facts and with this so cynical a point of
view that he became quite a college character and was pointed out as
a fellow who could lead his class if he would. As a matter of fact,
nothing could spur him to real competitive effort.
We may pass briefly over his life. After he left college, he drifted
from one position to another. Usually in some hack literary line. Were
it not for a small income he would have starved. After a few years he
become very fat and gross looking, and then came a kindly pneumonia
which carried him off.
We must not mistake the stolid for the hypokinetic. There was a classmate
of mine in the medical school, a large, quiet fellow, D. M., who got
by everything, as the boys said, by the skin of his teeth. He worked
without enthusiasm or zeal, studied infrequently and managed to pass
along to his second year, at about the bottom of the class. In that
year we took up bacteriology, the "bug-bear" as one punster
put it, of the school. Just what it was about the subject that aroused
D. M. I never knew, but a remarkable transformation took place. The
man changed over, studied hard, read outside literature and actually
asked for the privilege of working in the laboratory Sundays and holidays
so that he might learn more. When this was known to the rest of the
class, there were bets placed that he would not "last," but
quite to the surprise of everybody D. M. gained in momentum as he went
along. As a matter of fact, his interest on the subject grew, and he
is now a bacteriologist of good standing. In fact, his lack of interest
in other matters has helped him, since he has no distracting tastes
or pleasures.
Thus there are persons of specialized interest and energy, and it may
well be that there is for most of the hypokinetic a line of work that
would act to energize them. The problem, therefore, in each case is
to find the latent ability and interest and to regard no case as really
hopeless. I say this despite the fact that I believe some cases are
hopeless. The pessimistic attitude on the part of parent or teacher
kills effort; the optimistic attitude fosters energetic effort.
6. The irritable hypokinetic. Irritability[1] of a pathological type
as a phase of lowered energy is well known to every physiologist and
in the practical everyday world is seen in the tired and sick. There
are people who from the very start of life show lowered endurance, who
respond to certain stimuli in an excessive manner and are easily exhausted.
This type the neurologist calls the congenital neurasthenic, and it
may be we are dealing here with some defect in the elimination of fatigue
products. This, however, is only a guess, and the disease factor, if
there is any, is entirely unknown. I do not pretend that the person
I am to describe is entirely representative of this group. Indeed, no
dozen cases would show all the symptoms and peculiarities of the irritable
hypokinetic group.
[1] One must take care not to mistake the irritability
which is the characteristic of all living tissue for the irritability
here considered.
E. is a man at present
thirty years of age. In person he is of average height, rather slender,
with delicate features, somewhat bald, quick in action and speech. He
flushes easily and thus often has high color, especially when fatigued
or excited. This "vasomotor irritability," as the physicians
call it, is quite common in this group of people, and in fact in all
neurasthenia, whether acquired or congenital. Though I have described
E. as belonging to the slender type of person, it is necessary to say
that stout, rugged-looking people are often irritable and hypokinetic.
As a child E. "never could stand excitement or strain," as
his mother says. What is meant is this: that he became overexcited under
almost any circumstances and became profoundly fatigued afterwards.
As we have seen, the intense diffusion of excitement throughout the
whole body is a sign of the childish and inferior organism; as maturity
approaches and throughout childhood excitability decreases and is better
localized. When a noise is heard an infant jumps, and so do people like
E., but the better controlled merely turn their head and eyes to see
what the source of the noise may be. This lack of control of excitement
extended in E.'s case to play, entertainment, novelty of any kind, crowds
and especially to the disagreeable excitement of quarrels, fights, terrifying
experiences, etc. Under anger he trembled, grew pale, and his shouts
and screams were beyond control; under fear he became actually sick,
vomited and showed a liability to syncope of an alarming kind. E. was
not the selfish type of the neurasthenic; he was gentle and kind and
ready to share with everybody, a lovable boy of an intensely sociable
nature. Nevertheless, his high excitability and his quick fatigue made
it necessary to shelter him, for any effort at toughening merely brought
about a "breakdown."
Here we must reemphasize the fundamental importance of the fatigue reactions.
The normal fatigue reaction is to feel weary, to desire rest and to
be able to rest and sleep. The abnormal reaction, one directly opposed
to the well-being of the individual, is to feel exhausted, to become
restless and to find it difficult to sleep. There are children who thrive
on excitement and exertion; they sleep sounder for it, they recuperate
readily and gain in strength and endurance with every ordinary burden
put upon them. There are others to whom anything but the least excitement
and exertion acts as a poison, making them restless and exhausted. Not
all children who show this perverse fatigue reaction grow up with it.
It may be only a temporary phase of their lives, but while it lasts
it is very troublesome.
In E.'s case the overexcitable hypokinetic stage lasted until about
the ninth year, and then there was a great improvement, though he still
was of the same general type. He became a fairly good runner for a short
distance, learned to swim, though he stood the cold water poorly, was
clever and graceful as a dancer and was quite popular. At sixteen he
left school to enter business, because of the straitened means of his
family. He entered into adolescent period later and suffered greatly
from his sixteenth to nineteenth year from, fatigue, hypochondriacal
fears, and had to have a good deal of medical attention at this time.
Sex questions perplexed him, for he became quite passionate and at the
same time had much moral repugnance to illicit relations. His sexual
curiosity was intense, and he read all manner of books on the subject,
went to the burlesque shows on the sly and almost became obsessed on
sex matters.
At this stage he made only a mediocre showing in his business career,
though his evident honesty secured him promotion to a clerk's position.
After his nineteenth year he seemed to gain again in energy and endurance
and was fairly well until his twenty-eighth year, though he had to nurse
his endurance at all times, developed very regular habits of sleep,
diet, etc., and in this manner got along. Once he had an opportunity
to join an organization which would have paid him a better salary, but
the hours were irregular, and it would have demanded much exertion and
excitement, so he passed it by.
In 1917 he joined the army, partly because of patriotic motives, partly
because he was convinced that army life might develop his endurance
and energy. He was sent to an army post in the South and within two
months of his entrance had "broken down." He was sleepless,
restless, was irritable and "jumpy," had lost appetite and
the feeling of endurance. Life seemed intolerable, though he had no
desire to do away with himself, for he had no quarrel with life itself
but was disgusted with his inferiority. He was hospitalized, but this
did little good and he was afterwards discharged as medically unfit.
This, of course, hurt his pride, but essentially he was greatly relieved.
He made but slow improvement until through the munificence of Uncle
Sam he was given a new start in life through the Vocational Reeducation
Board. Like many other city men, he has dreamed of the "chicken
farm" as the ideal occupation free from too much work and yet lucrative.
This, of course, is a mistaken notion, but while learning the work he
is happy and is slowly regaining his energy. What time will bring forth
no one can tell, but this is certain: throughout his life he will have
to rely on good habits, carefully adjusted to his energy, in order to
protect himself from the bankruptcy that so easily comes on him. A philosophy
of life which will help to control his irritability is necessary, and
the intelligent of the hypokinetic irritable acquire the habits and
the philosophy necessary for their welfare.
Any neurologist could cite any number of such cases with varying traits
of character, high intelligence or feeble-minded, controlled in morals
or uncontrolled, happily or unhappily situated, whose central difficulty
is an irritable and easily exhausted store of energy. They are easily
excited and excitement burns them out; that is the long and short of
their situation. Sex, love, hatred, anger, strain, fear in all its forms,
illness,--all these and many other emotions and happenings may break
them down. Such people, and those who care for them, must not make the
mistake of thinking that rough handling, strenuosity, will cure what
is apparently a fixed character.
There is an irritable, high-energy type--irritable hyperkinetic--that
is well contrasted with the foregoing. This explosive personality works
by fits and starts but does not wear out, merely, as it were, settles
down to his ordinary pace when he rests up. He is like a six-day bicycle
racer who plugs along but every now and then sprints like mad for a
few laps and then comes back to a pace that would kill the average rider.
I shall not trouble to cite such a case, but I can think of at least
one man of good attainments who is of this explosive hyperkinetic type.
He responds to every demand with a burst of energy, and his quota of
ordinary activities is simply appalling.
Neglecting the further types of energy display for the simple reason
that this quality shades off into every conceivable type and is also
a part of every nature, we turn to the types of emotional mood display.
With these it is necessary to consider excitability as well, and the
most interesting beings are here our objects of study.
I wish first to emphasize my belief that where there is a great natural
variation in excitability and emotionality in individuals, there is
not nearly so much in races as we think, and that social heredity is
tradition and cultural level plays the more important role in this.
My friend and colleague, Dr. A. Warren Stearns, has made a study which
shows that while the immigrant Italian is excitable and quick to anger
and of revengeful reactions, his American-born descendent has so far
controlled and changed this type of reaction that he does not especially
figure in police records, in murders or assaults. My own studies of
the second and especially the third generation Jew show there is an
almost complete approach to the "American" type in emotional
display, in what is known as poise. This third generation Jewish-American
has dropped all the mannerisms of excitability in gesture and voice,
and his adherence to good form includes that attitude of nonchalant
humor so characteristic of the American.
1. The generally excitable, overemotional type. This type is more common
in the Latin, Hebrew and Celtic races. In some respects it corresponds
to the hypokinetic irritable, but it is not necessarily hypokinetic.
The artistic type of person, so called, is of this group, but is, of
course, talented as well. Talent need not be present, and there are
persons of no artistic ability whatever who show a generalized, excitable-emotional
temperament. All young children show the main traits of this type, and
there is something essentially simple about all these folk, no matter
how civilized or sophisticated they get to be.
A. L., a woman of fifty, belongs to this group. She is a Jewess and
now a widow. All of her life her character and temperament have been
the same, and though her experiences have been varied she has not in
any essential altered. This last is rather characteristic of the group,
for experience has but little effect on their emotional reactions.
A. L. cries very easily and readily, but her tears are easily dried
and her joy is grotesquely childlike. She is readily frightened, worries
without restraint and finds a melancholy satisfaction in the worst.
At the same time, her fears do not persist and are easily dissipated
by encouragement or good fortune. She is readily angered and "raises
a row" with great facility and without restraint. For this reason
her relatives and friends become panic-stricken when she becomes angry,
for they know that she does not hesitate to make an embarrassing scene.
In the efforts to conciliate her they are apt to give her her own way,
as a result of which she is the proverbial spoiled child, capitalizing
her weakness.
Our Jewess uses her emotions for effect, which means that she has become
theatrical. Though there is reality in her emotional display, time and
the advantages she has gained have brought enough finish and restraint
to her manifestations to gain the designation artistic. True, it is
a crude artistry, for intelligence does not sufficiently guide it, and
her art is used sometimes indiscriminately and inopportunely. As she
grows older the value of her tears is less, and she is becoming that
prime nuisance, the elderly scold.
Among the emotional types well recognized by the neurologist is that
known as the cyclothymic. In the individuals of this group there is
a periodicity to mood (rather than to emotions). There is a definitely
pathological trend to the cyclothymic, and in its most marked form one
sees the recurring depressions and excitement of Manic Depressive Insanity.
Aside from these pathological forms, there are persons who show curious
periodic changes in mood. They become depressed for no especial reason,
are "blue" for day after day and then quickly return to their
normal. Sometimes these blue spells alternate with periods of exaltation
and happiness, but in my experience this is far less common than periodic
blue spells, a kind of recurrent anhedonia.
L. D. is ordinarily what is known as a vivacious person. Bright, talkative,
keen in her discriminations, she has all her life been at the mercy
of strange alterations in mood, alterations which come and go without
what seems to others adequate reason.
As a child L. D. was sick a great deal. She showed an unusual susceptibility
to infection, and it was not until she was nine years of age that she
attended school regularly. Her illnesses made it impossible to discipline
her, and so she has always been a bit "spoiled," though her
kind and generous nature makes her a charming person. But more important
than the fact that she could not be disciplined is the lowering of energy
that these sicknesses produced, a lowering marked mainly by a liability
to fatigue and depression.
Let there come a sickness, and this woman's stock of hopeful mood goes
and there results a loss of interest in life, a loss of zest and joyousness.
A digression,--and a return to the theme of the first chapter of this
book. The dependence of the mental life on bodily structure, equally
true in the both sexes, is exquisitely demonstrated in woman. In many
women there occurs an extraordinary increase of sex desire just before
the menstrual period and in some to the point where it causes great
internal conflict. Others show moderate depression and even confusion
at this time, and to the majority of women some mood and thought change
is taken for granted. At the menopause mental difficulties to the point
of insanity are witnessed, and in some cases the change is permanent.
Back of mood is the entire organic life of the organism, and back of
the nature of our thoughts and deeds is mood.
A peculiarity of fatigue is remarkably well shown by this person. When
she is tired or convalescent a depressing thought sticks, becomes an
obsession, a fixed idea, to the plague of her life. Thus when she was
nursing her first baby the night feedings exhausted her. One night,
half asleep and half awake, with the vigorous little animal pulling
away at her breast, she watched the pulsing fontanelle on the top of
the baby's head, and the thought came to her how dreadfully easy it
would be to injure the brain beneath. Her heart pounced in fear, she
almost fainted at the thought, and yet it "stuck" and came
back to her with each random association. I need not detail how the
idea recurred a dozen times a day and brought the fear that she was
going insane. She stopped nursing the baby at night, got a good rest,
and the idea disappeared. She was "able to shake off" when
rested that which was a hideous obsession when fatigued.
Indeed, one might speak of persons of this type as hypothymic as well
as cyclothymic. The hypothymic are those whose stock of ......
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